| Location | Basingstoke |
| Age | 17 years |
| Cause of Death | Sudden Arrhythmic Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 08/02/1988 |
| Date of Death | 05/05/2005 |
| Visitors | 5,016 since 11/03/2007 |
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In Loving memory of Carl R Whittaker, died 5th of may 2005 at the age of 17 years was training to be a mechanic, starting a new life in northumberland.
Carl was an only child.
My son died of a Cardiac Arrythmia. They call it the silent killer!!!!
I'd just like to tell part of his story, when i found i was expecting; it was a shock but i soon came round to the idea of having my first baby. A little boy from my scan results. I had already decided on his name, i went into labour early at 37 wks but he was born dead, the doctors revived him and now everyday was a blessing. i treasured that little man with all my heart as i was never able to have anymore children i lost both fallopian tubes within 9 mths of each other to 2 eptopic pregnancies.
My son grew into a handsome boy with a laugh that was infectious and a smile to die for.
But life has a funny way and aged 17 yrs old my little man that almost made it into manhood was suddenly taken from me suffering a Cardiac Arrythmia, something that was never detected as a youngster, my heart was ripped out for a second time round the day he died.
I have some wonderful memories of my son Carl and so i thought i would share them.
with all my love baby your missed each and everyday mum xxx
Happy New Years Eve.
Memories linger in all that we see,
But still we long for what should be,
Another day....Another year......
Always wishing you were here.
Have a great party in Heaven with Steve, Carl.....
I guess you just got over Steve's 17th Birthday...... Have fun ...Look down and guide us.
Lots of love, XXXXXXXXX
hey sorry babe i aint been on here
hey babe i have been under alot of stress of late Carl and i know i should of been on here to talk to you, i am finding it really hard without you i am missing you more and more each day. I just wish things could be different i so want you here... i have met up with the friends who had there babies same time i had you and now they are grand parents now i so wish i could be the same Carl , and too know it will never happen i feel so unfinished as a mother finding it hard Carl love and miss you millions mum xxx
The baby piggies are born Carl
hi babe just to let you know that the baby piggies were born on the 17th june at 2.45am she had 5 in total i hope you can see them and make sure Carl that you play with them they are rather cute looking all diddy and tiny mini versions of mum. I love you with all my heart Carl and miss you more each and every day wishing i could see your beautiful face and hold you one more time love mum always and forever xxx
Just letting you know
Hi Carl i went to see sally morgan on sunday and monday night but you never got a message through i know you migh of been doing other things but i really need you or a sign. i know you have been cheeky lately around the house moving things and making things fall on the floor... i really miss you Carl and my heart hurts like crazy to know i cant hear your voice or to touch you i hate life and why did he have to take my boy you was my one and only and yet he still took you i wanna ask why but i never get the answers and i think this is unfair Carl its not you i am having a go at its llife in general i am having a go at mum loves you with all her heart and looks forward to the day that we are reunited and i wish that was nearer than later love mum
Hi Carl
Hi Carl. Thinking of you and mum on this your Angleversary.You certainly did what the Queen song....One by one....states.' You made a sensation,you found a way through'. take care of mum from your new dimension......all my luv Anne...say hello to Steve.xxxxxx
rip in peace
hi you may not know me i'm one of your mum's friend i know she missing you lots like im missing my son too. i know she loves you very much.
as an angel mum i love my boy just as much. my dear son i never got to know. i hope he found a friend in you.
his name is laim. please keep him safe intill i meet him one day. thanks carl. rip now my special angle friend. from bev
Hey Carl its your Angelversary 6 Year since you been gone
hey baby boy i so miss you, its your Angelversary again its been 6 yrs to the date and date its gone full circle, i hope you like your balloon and the one that i will be releasing for you as it is filled with love hugs and kisses babe......I still find it very hard to come to terms with my only child/son as gone forever..... i was so pleased a week or so ago i had a reading done by stewart keeys and i was so excited my dad brought you through for us to communicate; that was so special Carl especially the words you told him to say it helped to comfort me i will hold those words so dear to me. I know you love the Guinea pigs too as he told me you had not missed this event how cute.... I love you with all my heart and miss you terribly and how i wish things in life could be so different right now hugs to ya always
your loving mum xxxx
just to let you know
hey babe i had cuddle with nextdoor neighbour's new baby it took me right back to the day i was so proud to hold you on the day that you were born...... it hurt so so much as i knew i would never hold my grandchildren that you more than likely would have had with your wife girlfriend.and brought it home just how much i miss and love you and wish that i could turn back the time and do it all again with you Carl i hope your happy where you are but i would be so much more happier if you were here with me. i am having a reading done by stewart keeys in april Carl please come through i would so like to hear from you love and hugs mum xxx miss you loads babe xx♥♥
its my birthday
hi Carl it was mum's birthday today i so wish you could of been here to celebrate it with me, i so miss you and your funny ways Son, my birthday just aint the same anymore without you in them hugs to ya love you forever xxx
sorry Carl i aint been on here
Mum is really sorry Carl, i have been having trouble logging onto this site for a while now, but never fear i got here in the end Son...... i watched a clip of you the other night on my lappy when you were 11yrs old omg it brought back some funny memories, you had your new water gun i had brought you and you decided to sneak up on the birds with it..... devil you....when you had run out of water i asked you and your word was yeah i wish i could hear that again Carl and that i wish you were around me more oftern i know you do things in the house with the electrics and that it always amazes me and little white feathers that are left in the most unusal places.... I love you carl and remember always come visit me in my dreams babe.
love mum always xxx
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