| Location | Basingstoke |
| Age | 17 years |
| Cause of Death | Sudden Arrhythmic Death Syndrome |
| Date of Birth | 08/02/1988 |
| Date of Death | 05/05/2005 |
| Visitors | 3,235 since 11/03/2007 |
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In Loving memory of Carl R Whittaker, died 5th of may 2005 at the age of 17 years was training to be
a mechanic, starting a new life in northumberland.
Carl was an only child.
My son died of a Cardiac Arrythmia. They call it the silent killer!!!!
I'd just like to tell part of his story, when i found i was expecting; it was a shock but i soon
came round to the idea of having my first baby. A little boy from my scan results. I had already
decided on his name, i went into labour early at 37 wks but he was born dead, the doctors revived
him and now everyday was a blessing. i treasured that little man with all my heart as i was never
able to have anymore children i lost both fallopian tubes within 9 mths of each other to 2 eptopic
pregnancies.
My son grew into a handsome boy with a laugh that was infectious and a smile to die for.
But life has a funny way and aged 17 yrs old my little man that almost made it into manhood was
suddenly taken from me suffering a Cardiac Arrythmia, something that was never detected as a
youngster, my heart was ripped out for a second time round the day he died.
I have some wonderful memories of my son Carl and so i thought i would share them.
with all my love baby your missed each and everyday mum xxx
HALLOWEEN NIGHT
Hi Carl,
I'm missing you loads i wish we could be together on halloween night and dress up like we used to and go round and collect your sweeties.... something we both liked doing, Well i decorated your Angel space ready for tomorrow.... i hope you like it i had loads of fun doing it for you Carl i have done your card ready also which i will bring up tomorrow, its quite effective even if i say so myself, well i think your gonna have a WICKED ANGEL HALLOWEEN NIGHT WITH ALL THE OTHER ANGEL'S HERE CARL LOOK AFTER THE REALLY LITTLE ONES they may get frightened love you lots missing you loads see you tomorrow hun
mum and ted xxxx
♥ LOVING AND MISSING YOU ALWAYS ♥
Hi ya sausage, got all your halloween stuff in now can't wait to decorate your; Angel space lots of wicked stuff...I'm sure you will like it.
I miss you more each day, and can't wait for the day that we are reunited like we should be.
I will always love you Carl.And miss your cheeky grin and smile and our cuddles, even though you were growing up and most boys don't like that sort of things with their mum's you were different Carl you never minded if i cuddled you or if you did you never said and that made me feel special Son,I hope that when we are reunited your still the same way babe, cos that would make my day.OUR COUCHIES ON THE SETTEE WATCHING OUR TELLY PROGRAMS LIKE WE USED TOO...
Oh well Carl i will leave you in peace now and go play and look after all those ikkle tiny Angel's that have grown their wings too soon and guide them the right way, let them play on the Rainbow Slide and be caught by the fluffy floaty little clouds.
Love you lots babe
MUM xxx ♥♥♥
hey pickle
♥ I LOVE YOU CARL,more than words can say.... i miss you each and every day.... i laid you some flower's down on sunday afternoon here what do you think of your sunflower it look gorgeous babe.
Carl you went that day you died to paint rainbows in the skies and now as your special job is picking out the colours for the rainbows,
And i hope you have fun playing in the sky where the clouds catch you fall from the rainbow slide....
So go spinkle the stars with their Twinkle xxx
love mum xxx you'll always be the brightest star that shines the brightest xxx
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hi carl, keep ur mum safe at all times ok she needs u close right now an i no ur near cos she can sense u with everything she does.
Can u also give my sammy a cuddle 4 me cos its her 11th bday an i cant quite reach her, stay safe carl,
love tracey (next door)
Each night we shed a silent tear,
as we speak to you in prayer.
To let you know we love you,
and just how much we care.
Take our million teardrops,
Wrap them up in love,
and then ask the wind to carry them,
to you in heaven above.
Hi, just to let u know i'm going on holiday on Thursday with 4 friends (well earned)
I know iv not been on gts often but I still take a quick peak at kevins site and thank u all for the beautiful messages and candles that have been left
I would love to b on more often but my new job leaves me shattered most nights
But I always say a prayer for all the angels and there family each nite and hope u can find peace and contentment without yr loved one
Always in my thoughts and prayers
Sharon Xxx
Hi Carl.
Beautiful memories woven in gold,
Of a beautiful boy,
Who will never, grow old.
xxxxxxxxxxxx
Your Mum has worked very hard today, and you will be very proud of your ' little garden 'its beautiful.
Look down on mum ,& wrap your love around her on this your Angel Anniversary day.
My thoughts and love to Jan and the Family.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Anne.
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do you know the number
please do you know the number for heaven up above i want to make a call to someone that i love,telephone directories enquiries,oh yes i have tried them all,i even asked the local priest because he talks to god you see i thought he,d have a direct line but he was no help to me,i tried the yellow pages but nothing seem to fit i just want to talk to you for just a little bit, love theresa xxx
I stood by your bed last night
I came to have a peep,
I could see that you were crying
and you found it hard to sleep,
I whispered to you softly
as you brushed away a tear,
its me I havn't left you, i'm well
i'm fine, i'm here,
I was close to you a breakfast
I watched you pour your tea,
you were thinking of the many times
your hands reached out to me,
I was with you at the shops today
you're arms were getting sore,
I longed to take your parcels
I wish I could do more,
I was with you at my grave today
you tend it with such care,
I want to reassure you, that i'm not
lying there,
I walked with you towards the house
as you fumbled for your key,
I gently put my hand on you
I smiled and said 'its me'
you looked so very tired
and sank into a chair,
I tried so hard to let you know
that I was standing there,
its possible for me to be
so near to you every day,
to say to you with certainty
I never went away,
you sat there very quietly then smiled
I think you knew,
in the stillness of the evening
I was very close to you,
now the day is over.....I smile
and watch you yawning,
and say good night, god bless,
i'll see you in the morning,
and when the time is right for you
to cross the brief divide,
i'll rush across to greet you
and we'll stand side by side,
I have so many things to show you
there is so much for you to see,
be patient, live your journey out
then come home to be with me.
xxxxxx
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